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“I was a girl with lot of dreams for life. I was so excited when a prestigious company called for a job interview, but when I was rejected, I felt totally lost. I decided to end my life - never to return to this world again. Good bye mom. I truly love you and I know you loved me as well. Please take care of dad while I am gone.”

“Dad, you had high hopes on me. You used to boast that I would pass out of school with high scores. But when I saw my exam grade, I couldn’t help but to cry. I failed. This is not what I wanted to give you. I am sorry dad. I am leaving you behind. To a place I can no longer come back.Your son always loved you and always wanted to make you happy.”

“A verbal fight with my brother in law and within minutes, I was holding a gun in my hand. The anger within me took control, and what I could see was his and my family lying in blood. When my loved one’s are gone, why should I alone stay back in this world, as a lone looser, and I thus, pulled the trigger on myself to make everything a - silence.”

Life we have is a blessing. You are very important to your family, your friends and to everyone around you. They love us very much and are here to help solve any of our problems. Suicide is not answer to one’s life’s problem. Worse, indeed is killing others before committing suicide. You end your life and those around you as well.

Around midnight last October, Lori, 16, took a handful of pills at her neighbor’s house. In a southern city a 10-year-old boy wrote 200 times on his bedroom wall that he would not fight with his brother again. A short while after, he hung himself in the same room. In Sarasota,Florida, a TV personality took a  .38 c a l i b e r revolver and shot herself on live TV.
Suicide is a way that hundreds of people choose to end their lives, thinking that they have chosen the “easy way” out. But there is an answer!

Do you ever find your life so full of problems that you couldn’t find a solu-
tion if you tried? A desire to fit in, the need to feel accepted, and the constant pressure to be a good kid and a cool person are especially stressful during teen years. Those who feel socially isolated or unsupported by peers and/or family may turn to suicide to ease their pain.

Problems such as  t h e s e cause us to question what is really good about life. Sometimes we feel so depressed that we decide to end our life. Just imagine. Is this the right approach to a problem? Who doesn’t have problems?

There is an answer to hopelessness, anger, that feeling of not belonging, and depression, which might be causing you to think about killing yourself.

You are not alone with these feelings. 40,000 people commit suicide in America every year.There is a solution to every problem. On your way to finding a solution you might experience pain, but when you find the solution you will have a new way to solve problems in the future.

Everyone has problems. You can choose to be a part of the problem, or a part of the solution. You can choose to be influenced by the negativity around you.  You can reflect that cautiousness and lack of confidence. You can contribute to that downward spiral with your attitude. In that case, you have chosen to be part of the problem.

On the other hand, you can choose to be part of the solution.

You can choose an attitude of confidence and optimism. By so doing, you positively influence those around you, contributing to the solution. We need to understand that the life we have is a blessing. You are very important to your family, your friends and to everyone that knows you.

They love us very much and are here to help solve any of our problems. Open up to them about your problems and they will surely help you. Don’t let depression lead you to take your life.